Eventually, we become more useful, by becoming useless; as we get out of our own way, and let something Higher shine through us. Daily death and entering into lived Sabbath is the practice of becoming useless and therefore useful. Are you willing to become useless in order to become more useful to Love. To lose yourself to find your Self, in other, wiser words. To take up our cross, among other things, is to dissolve and be formed and named and nuanced by His. Lose yourself, to find it. Find our true selves, by losing ourselves in His Life. Find our names by allowing His to eclipse, and therefore reveal ours. That’s the most basic way of finding identity.